You can feel her care in fromof a sister.........

You can feel her warmth ofin form of a friend.......

You can feel her dedicationin form of a wife.....

You can feel her blessingsin form of a mother.....

Yet she is so tough too....

Her heart is so tender.....

So naughty,So charming...

So sharing,So melodious...She is a women,She is life.....

Respect her

You can feel her care in fromof a sister.........
You can feel her warmth ofin form of a friend.......
You can feel her dedicationin form of a wife.....
You can feel her blessingsin form of a mother.....
Yet she is so tough too....
Her heart is so tender.....
So naughty,So charming...
So sharing,So melodious...She is a women,She is life.....
Respect her

Six Ways to make People Like You

Principle 1: Become genuinely interested in other people. A simple way to make a good impression. The expression one wears on one's face if far more important than the clothes one wears on one's back. Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, " I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you." You must have a good time meeting people i f you expect them to have a good time meeting you. You don't feel like smiling? Then what? Two things. First, force yourself to smile. If you are alone, force yourself to whistle or hum a tune or sing. Act as if you were already happy, and that will tend to make you happy. "Action seems to follow feeling, but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not." -William James. Happiness doesn't depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions. It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it. "There is nothing either good or bad," said Shakespeare, "but thinking makes it so." Your smile is a messenger of your good will. Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it. To someone who has seen a dozen people frown, scowl or turn their faces away, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds. Principle 2: Smile. If you don't do this, you are headed for trouble The average person is more interested in his or her own name than all the other names on earth put together. Remember that name and call it easily, and you have paid a subtle and very effective compliment. But forget it or misspell it-and you have plac e yourself at a sharp disadvantage. Whenever you meet a new acquaintance, find out his or her complete name and some facts about his or her family, business or political opinions. Fix all these facts well in mind as part of the picture, and the next time you meet that person, even if it was a year later, you will be able to shake hands, inquire after the family, and ask about the hollyhocks in the backyard. Sometimes it is difficult to remember a name, particularly if it is hard to pronounce. Rather than even try to learn it, many people ignore it or call the person by an easy nickname. Most people don't remember names, for the simple reason that they don't take the time and energy necessary to concentrate and repeat and fix names indelibly in their minds. If you don't hear the name distinctly say excuse me I didn't get your name clearly. Then, if it is an unusual name, ask how it is spelled. Use the person's name several times in the conversation; try to associate it in your mind with the person's featur es, expression and general appearance. Then, when you are alone write the name down on a piece of paper, look at it, and concentrate on it, fix it securely in your mind, in this way you will gain an eye impression of the name as well as an ear impression.Principle 3: Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. An easy way to become a good conversationalist Listen intently; listen because you are genuinely interested. That kind of listening is one of the highest compliments we can pay anyone. The chronic kicker, even the most violent critic, will frequently soften and be subdued in the presence of a patient, sympathetic listener-a listener who will be silent with the irate fault-finger dilates like a king cobra and spews the poison out of his system. Be more eager to hear what a person has to say then even they are to tell it. Many people prefer good list eners to good talkers, but the ability to listen seems rarer than almost any other good trait. All we want when we are in trouble is a friendly, sympathetic listener to unburden yourself. That is frequently all the irritated customer wants, and the dissat isfied employee or the hurt friend. If you want to know how to make people shun you and laugh at you behind your back and even despise you, here is the recipe: Never listen to anyone for long. Talk incessantly about yourself. If you have an idea while the other person is talking, don't wait for him or her to finish: bust right in and interrupt in the middle of a sentence. If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments. Principle 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. How to interest people The royal road to a person's heart is to talk about the things he or she treasures most. Make an effort to find out what interests the person then get them talking about it. Talking in terms of the other person's interests pays off for both parties. When asked what reward he got from it, Mr. Herzig responded that he not only received a different reward from each person but that in general the reward had been an enlargement of his life each time he spoke to someone.Principle 5: Talk in terms of the other person's interests. How to make people like you instantly. Ask yourself " What is there about him or her that I can honestly admire?" That is sometimes a hard question to answer, especially with strangers. You want approval of those with whom you come in contact. You want recognition of your true worth. You want a feeling that your are important in our little world. You don't want to listen to cheap, insincere flattery, but you do crave sincere appreciation. So let's obey the Golden Rule, and give unto others what we would have others give unto us. How? When? Where? The answer is all the time, everywhere. Use little phrases such as "I'm sorry to trouble you, ___." "Would you please ___?" "Won't you please?" "Would you mind?" "Thank you." The unvarnished truth is that almost all the people you meet feel themselves superior to you in some way, and a sure way to their hearts is to let them realize in some subtle way that you recognize their importance, and recognize it sincerely. Talk to people about themselves and they will listen for hours. Principle 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely. In a Nutshell: Six ways to make people like you Become genuinely interested in other people. Smile. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.

First Love is.....................

"First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever." - Rosemary Rogers"First love is a little foolish and a lot of curiosity."- George Bernard Shaw"The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end." - Benjamin Disraeli"We never forget those who make us blush." - Jean-François De La Harpe"Young love is from the earth, and late love is from heaven." - Turkish Proverb"First love is dangerous only when it is also the last." - Branislav Nusic

LOVE LETTER OF A MECHANICAL ENGG

My perpetual darlingFrom the day u entered in the control volume of my mind my heart has become a closed system and its entropy is increasing according to III'rd law of loveodynamics.......The events and activities are so complex that I cannot find the optimumpath after n nos. of iterations......My heart is unable to sustain the cyclic load of ur frequent smiles and is near to endurance limit failure.....I am quenched in ur thoughts and no heat treatment can save my heartfrom decrystalisation now........please do not test the bearing capacity of my heart valves and lower your yield strength.........please do not increase the compression ratio of my heart so much bcozit is not designed to bear so much thermal stress.....please lower the octane no of ur temper as my little heart is not accustomed to so much undesired Knocking.......I am sure that u also would be experiencing some residual stress, andwill someday show a proportionate straining of ur heart according to hooks law .........and as a Mechi I firmly believe in this theory.....so I will wait ....... till my little heart crosses its ultimate tensile stress and fracturesYour LoveStrain-Hardened lover

Types of Marketing

A Professor at one of the IIM's (INDIA) was explaining marketingconcept to the Students:1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "Iam very rich.Marry me!"That's Direct Marketing2. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeousgirl. One of your friends goes up to her and poin ting at you say:He's very rich. Marry him."That's Advertising3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up toher and get hertelephone number. The next day, you cal l and say:Hi, I'm very rich. Marry me."That's Telemarketing4. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. You get up andstraighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink, youopen the door (of the car)for her, pick up her bag after she dropsit, offer her ride and then say: "By the way, I'm rich. Will youmarryme?"That's Public Relations5. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. She walks up to you andsay: "You are very rich! Can you marry ! me?"That's Brand Recognition6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: Iam very rich. Marry me!" She gives you a nice hard slap on yourface.That's Customer Feedback7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: Iam very rich. Marry me!" And she introduces you to her husband.That's demand and supply gap8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and beforeyou say anything, another person come and tell her: "I'm rich. Willyou marry me?"and she goes with him.That's competition eating intoyour market share9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and beforeyou say: "I'm rich, Marry me!"And your wife arrives.That's restriction for entering new markets

Ten worlds of Life

HELL: All conditions of suffering and despair. In this state, we are utterly devoid of freedom, and undergo extreme and indescribable suffering.

HUNGER: Consumed by desire and a sense of lack, Hunger is a state characterized by an insatiable desire. In this state, a person is tormented by relentless craving and by his inability to satisfy it.

INSTINCT (ANIMALITY): The state of Animality is governed by instinct, and one has no sense of reason or morality. A person in the state of Animality is in fear of the strong, but despises and preys upon those weaker than himself. One is dominated by a selfish ego. A person in this state is compelled by the need to be superior to others in all things, despising others and valuing himself alone.

ANGER: The fourth world is Anger. It's filled with various aspects of anger, hostility and rage, from whatever motivation and whether directed to others or toward oneself. This world also can involve striving for power and domination.

*These four states are collectively called the four lower worlds.

HUMANITY/TRANQUILIT WORLD: The fifth world is the normal basic state of neutral human experience. In this state, one can pass fair judgment, control one's instinctive desires with reason, and act in harmony with one's environment or society.

RAPTURE: The sixth world is Heaven or Rapture. This state indicates the sense of pleasure and ecstasy one feels when desire is fulfilled. However, the joy in this state is temporary and disappears with the passage of time or with even a slight change in circumstances. It is said that the shortest road to Hell (suffering) is from Rapture.

*These six worlds from Hell through Heaven are where the majority of people spend most of their time, moving back and forth among them. In these states, people are governed by reactions to external influences, and therefore they are extremely vulnerable to changing circumstances.

LEARNING: In the seventh world, learning - seeking some lasting truth - pervades. Generally one enters this life condition after pursuing the truth of life through the teachings of others. This life condition is relatively free from avarice, anger, stupidity, arrogance and doubt, as well as from bias or depravity. However, a selfish or arrogant mind, although hidden, is still present to some extent in this life condition.

REALIZATION: In this condition, one seeks some lasting truth through their own observations and effort, and attains a degree of emancipation by perceiving the chain of causation, or by observing the natural order. In other words, one understands cause and effect as the nature of life in the universe. Because this is a life condition reached by discovering the truth in the universe after much effort, the sense of fulfillment felt in this state may be deeper than that gained in the world of learning. *Realization and Learning can often turn into arrogance, because people in these life conditions become stubbornly attached to their own realization with its limited perspective. Learning and Realization are called the two vehicles. The defect of the two vehicles lies in the fact that persons in these states may primarily seek only their own salvation and enlightenment.

COMPASSIONATE ALTRUISM In the ninth world, one aspires to enlightenment, and also devotes oneself to compassionate actions and altruism. Those in this state dwell among common mortals of the Six Paths humbly, while respecting others. They seek to serve and benefit others. This life condition is characterized by the great desire to extend help to those who are suffering.

ENLIGHTENMENT or ACTUALIZATION: The highest life condition is a state of perfect and absolute freedom in which one enjoys boundless wisdom and compassion, and is filled with the courage and power to overcome all hardships. This is the condition underlying the rich, altruistic activities of the Bodhisattva, in which one takes the sufferings of others as his own and defies all obstacles to help others change their destiny. One demonstrates to others how they can call up their own Buddhahood from within themselves